Category: religion

Rebirth

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The past few weeks have been a whirlwind of loss, emotion, growth, and change. Rebirth is the best way to describe the outcome for me. Without going into a very long, detailed account of how it came about and all the signs and triggers that fell like dominoes in front of me, I will say that I came out the other end on a new plane full of positivity, renewed faith, light, love, and hope.

With the help of a few unknowing friends, I have a great grasp on the true definition and calling for my life, though I’m still not sure exactly how I’m supposed to use it. I’m not worried – that will come in time. I’m starting with Free Hugs Birmingham for now, something I’ve always wanted to do. I’ve got a few more projects along those same lines cooking in my head and heart and can’t wait to share them with you.

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This past weekend was spent at the annual women’s conference, reCreate, at Church of the Highlands. The conference is usually a time of surrender for me, where I come broken, in pieces, bawling my eyes out, needing love and healing. This year I was in a great place going in (thanks to the past few weeks) and had a completely different experience. I took away all positive affirmations from the speakers, writing down action items and things to continue on the journey I am already carving out for myself.

During the conference I ran into two friends and had the opportunity to sit down and talk with each of them separately for a good bit. Talking with Erin about her story and sharing mine with her, it was obvious to me that we were meant to meet up that day. Her story resonates with me on so many levels (I’ll let you read it for yourself here) and I can relate to it from many different perspectives. She has my utmost respect, love, and admiration for what she’s been through, what she’s decided, and what she continues to battle everyday. My favorite part of the conversation? After telling her what I want to do and sharing my fear and doubt with her, she simply said, “Just show up. Seriously, just show up, Sherri. He’ll do the rest.” I don’t think I’ll ever forget that and it may be my mantra for the rest of my life or any time I get nervous. Thank you for the life-changing words, Erin.

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Image courtesy of Mitzi Eaker

Later that day, I ran into Mitzi during a break, another friend who I don’t know very well, but have always enjoyed being around and looked up to. Running into her was a like a breath a fresh air – her smile lights up a room. She was there on happenstance and again, fate intervened. She told me the story of how she came to be at the conference (a great story!) and I shared with her my future plans and she summed it up perfectly when she said, “You just want to love people. And there are so many people that just need or want love.” That’s it! So, that’s my plan and that’s my mission – I’m going to start small and grow big, but that’s what I’m going to do….I’m just going to lift people up, love people and love on people. I know not everyone gets me and I’m not everyone’s cup of tea, and that’s ok. I’m just here to love you….whoever you are….starting with free hugs. And then my Free Love table…also coming soon to a corner near you.

reCreate was amazing. It reminded me that we’re not here for ourselves. We’re here for each other. I’m here for you. And while I want to make a difference, I’m going to start by loving you. Just loving you.

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Being Muslim

Hoover Crescent Islamic Center

Recently a group of friends and I had the privilege of visiting the Hoover Crescent Islamic Center to break the Ramadan fast with them. Not knowing what to expect and only hearing horror stories in the news, I was looking forward to learning more about the religion and its people.

We were warmly greeted by the president of the Birmingham Islamic Society, Ashfaq Taufique. He showed us into a small classroom lined with posters explaining various aspects of their community and Qur’ans and pamphlets laid out at each seat for us.

After introductions from everyone in the room, he gave us a brief background of the centers and masjids (mosques) around Birmingham – when they were built and what programs are offered at each. We learned about the six articles of Islam, as well as the five pillars of faith. We heard from a young man in the room, Ali, about how he practices while at school and how he deals with people who don’t understand his faith. After about an hour of learning we heard the Call for Prayer and joined Ashfaq and his young friend in breaking the fast with date fruit and some water before heading to prayer. A young lady, Rawan, escorted us to the masjid for prayer. Women and men enter the masjid through separate entrances after removing their shoes. Once inside, we watched and listened as verses of the Qu’ran were recited as men, women, and children stood, bowed, kneeled, and prostrated in prayer. It was a beautiful thing to behold and we stood in revered silence during the service. Many of the women came up to us after and introduced themselves, offering their hands and thanking us for coming. Once the service was over Ashfaq took us into the men’s portion of the masjid so we could see the Qu’ran verses written on the wall in Arabic and ask any questions we might have had about the service itself.pic1

Once we were back in the classroom, it was time to eat the meal. We enjoyed chicken tikka masala, potatoes, rice, and salad. Over dinner we asked many questions of Ashfaq and his young friends. Rawan had just graduated from high school and was on her way to UAB in the fall. She briefly described starting her education out at the Islamic Academy of Alabama and then transferring to Hoover High.

Talking with all of them during our two hour visit, I was struck at how full of love, peace, and passion they were. As Ashfaq pointed out, “There are radicals in every religion, but you don’t hear about others. We are peaceful people – the ones who you see on television are not like us. We don’t know who they are or where they came from. You never hear about all the good that comes from Muslims. We are feeding a school tomorrow here in Birmingham, and across the world a group of Muslims raised money and built a church for some Christians who had no place to worship. But you never hear about that stuff.” It’s sad, but true. I had no idea until he told us about it.

pic3Rawan said it best when she told us, “Our religion is based on love, peace, and kindness. We’re working hard to change people’s perceptions of us against what the media is putting out. We’re ALL human beings.” Amen, Rawan. Amen.

Everyone we met was kind and full of life and smiles. It was a wonderful, eye opening experience that I hope everyone will try at some point. We fear what we do not understand and our group went to get a better understanding. We left full of love, peace, and kindness.

If you would like to share in a Ramadan fast-breaking meal, please contact Rita Taufique at 879-4247 Ext. 2 or email rita.taufique@bisweb.org to make your reservation.

 

All photos courtesy of Catherine Lewis